November 21, 2010

Trying to Induce Labor



I'm just shy of 37 weeks in my pregnancy, and there's a full moon out tonight. So, I've been attempting to upset my stomach with strange foods.

For dinner, I've eaten the following:

Wendy's: chili and fries

Taco Bell: cheesy gordita crunch w/fire sauce & a mountain dew

White Castle: bacon cheeseburger slider

After eating dinner, I waited an hour and then started eating some popcorn. Popcorn always upsets my stomach.

So far? My stomach feels fine. I'll probably wake up with horrible gas tomorrow morning. I'm sure my baby isn't coming out without a fight, so this little experiment was a failure.  I wanted to give it a try just in case... ;)

I haven't been blogging recently because I started my new job November 2nd. Last Friday, I passed my evaluations testing, so I can officially stop being called a trainee. I work in a 911 call center, and it's a part-time position. All month, I've been stressed out about working again, learning new skills, not sleeping much, and getting tested. I know the sooner I have this baby, the sooner I can stay home and take care of myself. Until then, it's a daily fight to get this giant, tired body up and ready for a busy day at work.



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October 27, 2010

33 Week Appointment

Bingo Number 33
I had an OBGYN appointment this morning. As always, I saw my doctor for less than 10 minutes but had to sit there for over an hour. I was utterly shocked to find out my weight had NOT increased since my weigh in on October 7. To have a growing belly for 20 days and NOT gain a pound is such a great feeling. My blood pressure was also good.

I was handed a 34 week appointment packet explaining what to look for when going into labor. It also included information on Post Partum care. I go back in 2 weeks, and I will be tested for Group B Strep Infection. I need to educate myself more on what to expect during appointments these last few weeks. I don't want any surprises.

My doctor discussed fetal movement with me. She's normally a very laid back woman, but she admits to getting a bit "psycho" when it comes to fetal movement. The last thing she wants to hear is a woman call in and say, "I haven't felt any movement since yesterday." My doctor wants me to make sure I'm feeling movement at least 4-5 times per day. She wants first morning wakeup, after breakfast, after lunch, after dinner, and before bedtime. If the baby isn't moving during those times, I am to drink OJ or something similar and lie on my side.

I've read this before but not really worried about it. My baby doesn't move constantly. He sometimes doesn't move after eating either. But, my doctor said the first thing a baby does when it's in danger is slow down to conserve energy. So, if there's no movement, he could still be alive but in danger. I am to call my doctor and come in to have a quick check on the monitor. If his heart rate is low or there's something else noticeable, they will take me in for an emergency C-section to get him out of the dangerous situation. I'm going to pay more attention to his movements. I've read horror stories of women losing their babies around 39 weeks due to the umbilical cord choking them. That idea alone freaks me out.
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October 23, 2010

32 Weeks Pregnant

have a beary merry christmas!Image by Shutter Daddy via Flickr
It is really hard to believe I only have about 7-8 weeks left in this pregnancy. It's the end of October (which has flown by), and November starts the month of December due date mom's going into labor early. On some days, my belly bump feels like it's going to pop open. Other days, I feel like my bump is smaller than many pregnant bellies I see.

I absolutely love the holidays. If it weren't for holidays, the winter would be unbearable. I can't wait to start wearing sweaters, coats, scarves, boots, etc. I want to start blasting Christmas music every time I go somewhere in the car. I'm just so happy that we're welcoming our first child during this time of year. I've got my anniversary coming up in early November followed by my birthday, my son's birthday, and Christmas. My poor husband has some serious shopping to do.

But in all honesty, we both aren't requiring much this year. I think we both just feel blessed to have a child on the way and to have such wonderful family support. I need to ride this emotional high and start nesting already. Our home is pretty darn small, so you'd think it'd be super easy to clean. Actually, I'm sure it is, I just need to start somewhere.

Sorry this post was all over the place. It's 6am on a Saturday, and I'm home alone.
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October 19, 2010

Upside Down Car Loan Woes

Toyota Prius Hybrid, Miami, Florida
My husband and I went out and impulse purchased a 2008 sedan last December. My husband was starting a new job with a long commute, so he was going to need to drive my Prius. At that same time, I was starting my job searching and needed a reliable car to use day-to-day. His car was really old and broken down. I didn't trust it to get me from A to B.

So, we went out one night to look at a dealership's car (found on Ebay), and we were roped into the car. The finance terms are outrageous, and it was a car make that went bankrupt. So, we spent too much on it, and driving it off the lot dropped it's value considerably. We had gotten married a month earlier, and we honestly weren't thinking about starting our family so soon. The car is acceptable for driving around a baby with no problem, but the total cost of the car is really something we don't want to spend. We would have been MUCH happier getting a cheaper car.

As it stands now, we're upside down on the loan roughly $2,000-$3,000. So, we have to pay someone that amount of money just to get it off our hands. We also don't have a savings account built up. I've been unemployed since July of 2009. I'm starting a new job soon, but it's only part-time. So, my take home pay will be much less than my current unemployment benefits. About a month after I start my new job, I'll go on 6 weeks of unpaid leave for the birth of my baby. We've been trying to cut corners, pay things down, and put some money in savings due to all this baby-related work stuff. So, we don't have any spare cash to throw at a newer vehicle.

As it pains me to type this, I know we'll be stuck with this expensive sedan for a while. The interest rate is high, and the loan seems to go on forever. The dealer was willing to try anything to get us into that vehicle. We were so unprepared to purchase that we made a huge mistake that may take years to fix.

We ideally would like a $10,000 used vehicle. With a loan at that amount, we'd have a little more money freed up each month. My husband gets a raise in January, and of course we'll have a nice tax-return in the 2nd quarter. I guess we'll revisit our auto situation then. I'm just bummed.
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October 16, 2010

I Tested Positive for fFn Test

Me in Labor & Delivery looking cheerful
I need to officially start this posting at the beginning of my labor & delivery story. I went to the Oprah Show in downtown Chicago, IL on Thursday, October 14th. This was basically an all-day affair using cars, trains, walking, and buses to get to and from the city. I wouldn't say I walked all day, but I did a lot more walking than I usually do on a day-to-day basis.

That night, I came home at 7pm. My husband and I relaxed in the living room and watched our Thursday night tv shows. I laid on the couch just trying to relax my legs and body. Upon sitting up to get ready for bed, my pelvic bones popped. My lower back hurt worse than I'd ever felt before. And as I sat up, my uterus contracted. This was the first Braxton Hicks contraction I have ever felt. Other contracts were post-sex related, and went away within 5 minutes. This particular contraction wouldn't go away. I asked my husband to come into the room to feel it since he hadn't felt the boulder-like uterus before. After sitting for 10 minutes, I figured a nice, hot shower on my back would help with the pain. I was also hoping the contraction would go away. While undressing for the shower, I got the chills. My teeth were chattering, and my husband said it was by no means cold in our bedroom at the time.

The shower felt amazing, but my stomach never softened. I drank lots of ice water and got into bed on my left side. I stayed up listening to my husband snore just waiting to feel ok again. Since there was no bloody CM or leaking amniotic fluid, I didn't feel it necessary to call my OBGYN. I had an appointment scheduled the following morning, so I figured we would talk then. I fell asleep with the idea that if something was really going on with my body, I would wake up again.

In the morning, my alarm went off and my uterus was soft; however, my body felt like it was hit by a truck. Everything was cracking, popping, and pulling. We got up, dressed, and went to the doctor's office. I told the nurse about my busy day prior and my 30+ minute long contraction. My doctor checked my cervix and verified that I wasn't dilated at all. She did a swab test to see if I would go into preterm labor. She said that it would be highly unlikely, but it was more of a precautionary test. I later looked up the test to find out it's called the Fetal Fibronectin Test (fFN test).

After the doctor appointment, my husband and I went out for breakfast. We then went to the barber shop for his haircut and stopped by Costco for some groceries. While at Costco, I needed to use the bathroom. Upon wiping, I saw blood clots on the tissue and in my underwear. Since my cervix is sensitive and can bleed sometimes, I decided to call the doctor to find out if this could be due to her test.

I talked to the doctor that was on call, and she said it was probably due to my doctor scraping near my cervix and to check it within several hours to see if the bleeding lessens. She said my cervix just needed a break. I was to go home and relax. We drove home after shopping and pulled into the driveway. My doctor's office called me again. This time, it was my doctor asking how my symptoms were. She then notified me that I tested positive for fFN and needed to come to labor & delivery (l&d) for monitoring.

My husband unloaded the car and took our dogs for a short walk. I changed into sweatpants and flip flops. We came back to the hospital and I was hooked up to machines. The head nurse asked me many questions and then told me I was to order a meal for dinner. Since we arrived at 2:40pm, I didn't think I'd be eating dinner at the hospital. I tried asking her when I'd be leaving.

"You'll leave when you're done being monitored." I tried asking it another way, but she gave me the same condescending answer. I just thanked her so she could leave my room and I could vent to my husband. I was constantly updating facebook and asking women on babycenter about how long this monitoring would take. I got mixed answers from 1 hour to 2 weeks. In the meantime, I felt fine. The baby was kicking like crazy, which was cool to hear on the monitor. I wasn't contracting at all, so I wanted to get out of there.

The nurse told me I was ordered to get a shot of betamethasone to help develop my son's lungs in the rare case I had to deliver early. I have to go in today for my second shot. We left after 3.5 hours. My doctor saw my readout and decided I was free to go home.

What a day! I'm still seeing tinges of blood when I wipe and on my panty liners. If I'm still bleeding on Sunday, I'll make another call to the doctor.

Here's a picture of my husband pretending to be asleep:


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