October 27, 2010

33 Week Appointment

Bingo Number 33
I had an OBGYN appointment this morning. As always, I saw my doctor for less than 10 minutes but had to sit there for over an hour. I was utterly shocked to find out my weight had NOT increased since my weigh in on October 7. To have a growing belly for 20 days and NOT gain a pound is such a great feeling. My blood pressure was also good.

I was handed a 34 week appointment packet explaining what to look for when going into labor. It also included information on Post Partum care. I go back in 2 weeks, and I will be tested for Group B Strep Infection. I need to educate myself more on what to expect during appointments these last few weeks. I don't want any surprises.

My doctor discussed fetal movement with me. She's normally a very laid back woman, but she admits to getting a bit "psycho" when it comes to fetal movement. The last thing she wants to hear is a woman call in and say, "I haven't felt any movement since yesterday." My doctor wants me to make sure I'm feeling movement at least 4-5 times per day. She wants first morning wakeup, after breakfast, after lunch, after dinner, and before bedtime. If the baby isn't moving during those times, I am to drink OJ or something similar and lie on my side.

I've read this before but not really worried about it. My baby doesn't move constantly. He sometimes doesn't move after eating either. But, my doctor said the first thing a baby does when it's in danger is slow down to conserve energy. So, if there's no movement, he could still be alive but in danger. I am to call my doctor and come in to have a quick check on the monitor. If his heart rate is low or there's something else noticeable, they will take me in for an emergency C-section to get him out of the dangerous situation. I'm going to pay more attention to his movements. I've read horror stories of women losing their babies around 39 weeks due to the umbilical cord choking them. That idea alone freaks me out.
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October 23, 2010

32 Weeks Pregnant

have a beary merry christmas!Image by Shutter Daddy via Flickr
It is really hard to believe I only have about 7-8 weeks left in this pregnancy. It's the end of October (which has flown by), and November starts the month of December due date mom's going into labor early. On some days, my belly bump feels like it's going to pop open. Other days, I feel like my bump is smaller than many pregnant bellies I see.

I absolutely love the holidays. If it weren't for holidays, the winter would be unbearable. I can't wait to start wearing sweaters, coats, scarves, boots, etc. I want to start blasting Christmas music every time I go somewhere in the car. I'm just so happy that we're welcoming our first child during this time of year. I've got my anniversary coming up in early November followed by my birthday, my son's birthday, and Christmas. My poor husband has some serious shopping to do.

But in all honesty, we both aren't requiring much this year. I think we both just feel blessed to have a child on the way and to have such wonderful family support. I need to ride this emotional high and start nesting already. Our home is pretty darn small, so you'd think it'd be super easy to clean. Actually, I'm sure it is, I just need to start somewhere.

Sorry this post was all over the place. It's 6am on a Saturday, and I'm home alone.
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October 19, 2010

Upside Down Car Loan Woes

Toyota Prius Hybrid, Miami, Florida
My husband and I went out and impulse purchased a 2008 sedan last December. My husband was starting a new job with a long commute, so he was going to need to drive my Prius. At that same time, I was starting my job searching and needed a reliable car to use day-to-day. His car was really old and broken down. I didn't trust it to get me from A to B.

So, we went out one night to look at a dealership's car (found on Ebay), and we were roped into the car. The finance terms are outrageous, and it was a car make that went bankrupt. So, we spent too much on it, and driving it off the lot dropped it's value considerably. We had gotten married a month earlier, and we honestly weren't thinking about starting our family so soon. The car is acceptable for driving around a baby with no problem, but the total cost of the car is really something we don't want to spend. We would have been MUCH happier getting a cheaper car.

As it stands now, we're upside down on the loan roughly $2,000-$3,000. So, we have to pay someone that amount of money just to get it off our hands. We also don't have a savings account built up. I've been unemployed since July of 2009. I'm starting a new job soon, but it's only part-time. So, my take home pay will be much less than my current unemployment benefits. About a month after I start my new job, I'll go on 6 weeks of unpaid leave for the birth of my baby. We've been trying to cut corners, pay things down, and put some money in savings due to all this baby-related work stuff. So, we don't have any spare cash to throw at a newer vehicle.

As it pains me to type this, I know we'll be stuck with this expensive sedan for a while. The interest rate is high, and the loan seems to go on forever. The dealer was willing to try anything to get us into that vehicle. We were so unprepared to purchase that we made a huge mistake that may take years to fix.

We ideally would like a $10,000 used vehicle. With a loan at that amount, we'd have a little more money freed up each month. My husband gets a raise in January, and of course we'll have a nice tax-return in the 2nd quarter. I guess we'll revisit our auto situation then. I'm just bummed.
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October 16, 2010

I Tested Positive for fFn Test

Me in Labor & Delivery looking cheerful
I need to officially start this posting at the beginning of my labor & delivery story. I went to the Oprah Show in downtown Chicago, IL on Thursday, October 14th. This was basically an all-day affair using cars, trains, walking, and buses to get to and from the city. I wouldn't say I walked all day, but I did a lot more walking than I usually do on a day-to-day basis.

That night, I came home at 7pm. My husband and I relaxed in the living room and watched our Thursday night tv shows. I laid on the couch just trying to relax my legs and body. Upon sitting up to get ready for bed, my pelvic bones popped. My lower back hurt worse than I'd ever felt before. And as I sat up, my uterus contracted. This was the first Braxton Hicks contraction I have ever felt. Other contracts were post-sex related, and went away within 5 minutes. This particular contraction wouldn't go away. I asked my husband to come into the room to feel it since he hadn't felt the boulder-like uterus before. After sitting for 10 minutes, I figured a nice, hot shower on my back would help with the pain. I was also hoping the contraction would go away. While undressing for the shower, I got the chills. My teeth were chattering, and my husband said it was by no means cold in our bedroom at the time.

The shower felt amazing, but my stomach never softened. I drank lots of ice water and got into bed on my left side. I stayed up listening to my husband snore just waiting to feel ok again. Since there was no bloody CM or leaking amniotic fluid, I didn't feel it necessary to call my OBGYN. I had an appointment scheduled the following morning, so I figured we would talk then. I fell asleep with the idea that if something was really going on with my body, I would wake up again.

In the morning, my alarm went off and my uterus was soft; however, my body felt like it was hit by a truck. Everything was cracking, popping, and pulling. We got up, dressed, and went to the doctor's office. I told the nurse about my busy day prior and my 30+ minute long contraction. My doctor checked my cervix and verified that I wasn't dilated at all. She did a swab test to see if I would go into preterm labor. She said that it would be highly unlikely, but it was more of a precautionary test. I later looked up the test to find out it's called the Fetal Fibronectin Test (fFN test).

After the doctor appointment, my husband and I went out for breakfast. We then went to the barber shop for his haircut and stopped by Costco for some groceries. While at Costco, I needed to use the bathroom. Upon wiping, I saw blood clots on the tissue and in my underwear. Since my cervix is sensitive and can bleed sometimes, I decided to call the doctor to find out if this could be due to her test.

I talked to the doctor that was on call, and she said it was probably due to my doctor scraping near my cervix and to check it within several hours to see if the bleeding lessens. She said my cervix just needed a break. I was to go home and relax. We drove home after shopping and pulled into the driveway. My doctor's office called me again. This time, it was my doctor asking how my symptoms were. She then notified me that I tested positive for fFN and needed to come to labor & delivery (l&d) for monitoring.

My husband unloaded the car and took our dogs for a short walk. I changed into sweatpants and flip flops. We came back to the hospital and I was hooked up to machines. The head nurse asked me many questions and then told me I was to order a meal for dinner. Since we arrived at 2:40pm, I didn't think I'd be eating dinner at the hospital. I tried asking her when I'd be leaving.

"You'll leave when you're done being monitored." I tried asking it another way, but she gave me the same condescending answer. I just thanked her so she could leave my room and I could vent to my husband. I was constantly updating facebook and asking women on babycenter about how long this monitoring would take. I got mixed answers from 1 hour to 2 weeks. In the meantime, I felt fine. The baby was kicking like crazy, which was cool to hear on the monitor. I wasn't contracting at all, so I wanted to get out of there.

The nurse told me I was ordered to get a shot of betamethasone to help develop my son's lungs in the rare case I had to deliver early. I have to go in today for my second shot. We left after 3.5 hours. My doctor saw my readout and decided I was free to go home.

What a day! I'm still seeing tinges of blood when I wipe and on my panty liners. If I'm still bleeding on Sunday, I'll make another call to the doctor.

Here's a picture of my husband pretending to be asleep:


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I went to the Oprah Show!

Me at the Oprah Winfrey Show outside Harpo Studios
I've already done a quick summary of my trip to the Oprah Show. I've mentioned before on my blog that my mom and I are not very close. However, she invited me to go to the Oprah Show taping when she was given two tickets by a neighbor.

Here's my summary

My episode will air on October 19th.

Pre-show
We got there and had to stand in line for a while. My mom and I were pulled from our 4 person party due to my pregnancy. I was allowed to sit in the first floor waiting area (reserved for obese, pregnant, and/or handicapped individuals). Our purses were checked and cell phones/cameras had to be removed. It was so hard going through this process without being able to take pictures or update my fb status. lol Certain groups of people were seated first. These were studio audience guests that had written into Oprah requesting to see Susan Boyle, etc. They were all super fans. Our handicapper group went next followed by all the healthy people that were waiting 3 flights upstairs.We were told by other people waiting in line what the show's topic was - Susan Boyle. I wasn't too excited about it. I'm not a fan of Susan Boyles, and I was hoping for an episode featuring some big scandal or celebrity interview. The A taping in the morning was a serious episode featuring Tyler Perry. I would have preferred that show.


Seating
The audience area is always smaller in real life than what it looks like on TV. We were seated in the back, upper sections (which aren't very far away or high up). I'm wearing a turquoise, stripped maternity top and am sitting with a rail to my left. I'm right next to an aisle/entrance. The choir that sang in the first performance came out right next to me. Hopefully, I'll be on camera due to that. Oprah interviewed everyone from the right end of the stage. We sat on the opposite end with the guests.

Taping Experience
I went to the Oprah Show taping today. The theme was about "The Next Big Thing" (I think). The first guest was Susan Boyle. She sang, "Don't Dream It's Over," off her upcoming album The Gift. There was a children's choir that came out with her. It was pretty cool. Susan looks great physically. Her accent was cute, and her green corset dress made it hard for her to sit in her chair for the interview.

The second guest was the 10 year old girl from America's Got Talent, Jackie Evancho. Her performance was AMAZING. She was awesome and cute.

The third interview/performance was Debby Boone. She sang, "You Light Up My Life."

We were then told that Oprah had to record herself for the Daily Show with Jon Stewart (AIRING TONIGHT 10/14!). She'll be on with a black dress and diamond collar. Anyway, we were told to all laugh hysterically as if we heard the best joke in the world. So, if you tune in tonight at 10pm CST, you'll hear us all laughing.What are we laughing at? No clue!

During Oprah's speech to the Daily Show, she told the camera that everyone in Jon's audience would get the new XBOX 360 4GB Kinect bundle. I heard that and got bummed. Then, a second later, she said that everyone in her audience would be getting one as well. That's when the real cheering came up. We'll be getting the XBOX's shipped to our homes in November due to the release date being 11/4. My husband is a very happy camper with this.

Oprah in Person
Oprah was amazing. She came out with makeup/hair/dress all done. She was carrying around her high heels because she didn't want to wear them until she had to. Since she was already mic'd, we could hear everything she said. She was talking about her feet being a size 11. She was charasmatic and funny. She talked about her last episode for the final season and how everyone would be crying. She joked that she wouldn't cry because she'd pop a Valium to chill out. During each stage change and break, she's engage the audience with a joke or story. At some point, she left and promised to come back. Everyone cheered upon her arrival, and she said, "Everyone's gotta pee at some point!" She was great. The entire time we saw Oprah, she had a smile on her face and a wonderful, positive attitude. AND, she looks just as good in person as she does on TV.
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October 8, 2010

2nd Baby Shower Was Amazing

Baby Shower Giraffe Cake
Our second baby shower was held on Saturday, October 2nd. This party was located in our state and the guests were all my family and friends. We had a rather large turnout, and our son made out like a bandit with gifts and love.

I'm having some slight problems acquiring photos from my sisters-in-law. I took some pictures of the decorations and such before anyone really arrived, but I really wish I could have the images of me and guests.

This shower was co-ed, but the only men were my husband, brothers, and father. I was fortunate enough to have my mom there and my step-mother NOT there. My step-mother does not get along well with anyone in our family (except my father). So, she decided to boycott the entire event. While she thought she was hurting my feelings, it was quite the opposite. There was cheering and high-fives abound for everyone!

The theme of the party was giraffes to coincide with our nursery theme. The cake was a giraffe. There were giraffe plates, balloons, and banners. It was amazing how many giraffes my sisters-in-law were able to find for this. They really put in a lot of time and money for this shower, so I am truly indebted to them. I'm hopeful that one of the two will get pregnant within the next year. Both have their reasons for waiting, but I can wish, can't I?
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Successful 29 Week 3D Ultrasound

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29 Week 3D/4D Ultrasound
I haven't updated in a while. My hubby and I went in for our 3rd and final 3D ultrasound on September 29. I was exactly 29 weeks pregnant on that date. This was our third attempt at 3D because the two prior times either resulted in poor images or no images at all.

I guess third time's a charm. Our images aren't perfectly clear and sharp due to my anterior placenta, but we were able to see our little man's face. He's got more fatty tissue in his cheeks and mouth. The image posted to the right shows his mouth slightly open. For the most part, he was stretching back with his hand around his neck. So, we got some cute shots of his arm under his chin (below).

29 Week 3D/4D Ultrasound
I'm sure to strangers this must look generic and silly. I've heard several comments from friends and family stating they thought 3D ultrasounds look "creepy". For my husband and I, we were so excited to see who was in there. If the technology is available, affordable, and safe, why would we pass up the opportunity to see our baby's face?

Immediate family members loved seeing these pictures. It was nice finally being able to upload something to Facebook and have family comment on them. The 26 week ultrasound pictures weren't clear and our man was really too small to look like a real baby yet. Now, we have 9-10 weeks until our baby's birth. I can't wait to see if his looks stayed the same from 29 weeks or if he's gotten any fatter!

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